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Wendell Oliver Long

1931 - 2016

Wendell Oliver Long obituary, 1931-2016, Durango, CO

BORN

1931

DIED

2016

Wendell Long Obituary

Wendell Oliver Long passed away on Sunday, June 6th, 2016, from a sudden cerebral hemorrhage. He was eighty-five years of age.

Born in 1931 in Los Angeles, Wendell received a basketball scholarship from Loyola University, and graduated with a bachelor of arts in Education from the University of California Santa Barbara in 1956. He served in the US Army as a writer for the Military Police Journal. He then taught creative writing and coached basketball at San Dieguito High School in the north county of San Diego.

In 1980 Wendell relocated to Durango with his partner, Mary Ellen Long. Married in 1953, Wendell and Mary Ellen were each other's inspiration-and the obvious joy of their relationship inspired many.

Wendell will be remembered as a well-loved manager at Durango Natural Foods in the 1980s and a fixture at countless events at the Durango Center for the Arts, where Mary Ellen serves as a member of the Advisory Board.

A long-time maestro at the Hillcrest Golf Club, Wendell was known for his playful sense of humor and clever one-liners. In his typical understated manner, he shot his age from his late 60s into his 80s. A generous friend and mentor, his care and conversation enriched the lives of countless students and friends.

Wendell was deeply proud of his family. He leaves behind Mary Ellen and two sons-Mark, a college professor in New Hampshire and Mitchell, a Los Angeles-based musician, daughter-in-law Rebecca Todd, and five grandchildren: Kaleb and Korin Stonacek, Zenos Karagas. and Nathaniel and Ellinore Todd Long.

A celebration of Wendell's life is planned for Saturday, August 20th, in Durango.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Durango Herald on Jun. 8, 2016.

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Grace Cavalieri

June 2, 2020

Mary Ellen, Wendell, Ken, and I danced to TRINI LOPEZ
That will not be forgotten.

Adele Kurtz

August 13, 2016

Rich and I only met him a couple times, but he sure made a lasting impression. Wendell knew how to keep us all on our toes with his kind sense of humor. He was quick with his wit, generous in spirit, and intimidating on the golf course. Out of our league, for sure! It is an honor to cross & share paths with such an wonderful man. Blessings to all who loved him and carry him in your hearts forever.

Sue Robinson

July 3, 2016

Dearest Mary Ellen and family, I feel so fortunate to have known Wendell. I was saddened to read about his passing. I know he will be very missed by all. I wish I could be in Durango for the celebration of his life. I will celebrate in spirit and be with you. Love, Sue Ann

Deborah Cowan

June 13, 2016

Mary Ellen - I am so sorry to hear of Wendell's passing. My thoughts and best wishes are with you during this sad time. Deborah Cowan

Grace Cavalieri

June 11, 2016

You and W.O. are pieces of my heart that will live forever
GRACE

Susan Hensel

June 11, 2016

Mary Ellen, and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Wendell well from your charming time at Susan Hensel Gallery in Minneapolis.
Fondly, but sadly,
Sue Hensel

Suzi Moore McGregor

June 10, 2016

I refuse to believe you're very far away. You have a strong spirit and I believe it will always be among us. Thank you for your friendship. Lots of love to you and Mary Ellen. xxxox Suzi McGregor

Emery Fitzgerald

June 10, 2016

The Crawford family sends our sincerest condolences. Sending big healing hugs to the family. xoxo

Photo of our dear friends, Wendell and Mary Ellen Long, just eight and a half weeks before Wendell suddenly passed away. Taken 4/6/2016 in Peoria, AZ.

Marilu and Chris Norden

June 10, 2016

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