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Thomas C. James

1936 - 2022

Thomas C. James obituary, 1936-2022, Durango, CO

BORN

1936

DIED

2022

Thomas James Obituary

Thomas C. James "Tom" AKA, "Coach James" or "TJ " went home to be with the Lord on June 18, 2022 joining his wife of 25 years Nancy James. Tom was at his home in Albuquerque, NM surrounded by family and friends.

Tom is survived by his son Thomas James and spouse Cinda James of Corrales NM, grandsons Darin James of Golden, CO and Travis James of Corrales, NM and his son Todd James of Edwards, CO, Also survived by his first wife Judith James of Green Valley, AZ. (formerly Pagosa Springs CO) His niece Susan Foley and nephew Jim Mappin, stepdaughter Kathy Nehrenz and husband Pastor David and their children, Stephen Nehrenz, Michelle Nehrenz, Kurt Nehrenz and wife Kaitlin, Mark Nehrenz and wife Laura, and great grandchildren Corrie and Bea Nehrenz. Step daughter Kimberly Knippa and her children Matthew Medina, wife Tiffani, and great grandson Noah. Grandson Justin Jenkins and granddaughter Faith Jenkins.

Tom's journey began on November 4, 1936 in the small mining town of Bisbee AZ. He graduated from Clear Creek High School in 1954 in Idaho Springs, CO. Shortly thereafter Tom joined the Navy, serving through 1956, and later attending college at Western State and Fort Lewis in 1959. It was in Durango where he met and married his first wife Judith Decker. Lastly he transferred to the University of Colorado in Boulder, graduating in 1963.

Tom went on to teach history and coach football at Bayfield High School, leading them to their first state football championship playoff game in school history. "Coach James, or TJ" was a fixture at Durango High School from fall 1968 through the spring of 1980. In his tenure he coached track, cross country, and football, with great success in the classroom and with his athletic teams.

Among his favorite achievements was his summer career on the Durango Silverton train, working for the Denver & Rio Grande Western Railroad. In his 12 year tenure he successfully held every position from brakeman to engineer, all the while coaching and teaching full time.

Late summer 1980, Tom and his family relocated to Pagosa Springs, Colorado. Shortly after, going to work in Dulce, NM as the Special Education Director, Teacher, Head Football, Track and Basketball coach for several years before retiring as the Principal of the High School in 1998.

In 1990 Tom met Nancy Malone of Pagosa Springs, CO and they married in March of 1991. Tom without hesitation stepped in gaining two daughters and quickly embraced being grandpa.

Tom loved sharing his tales, though some may say they were at times exaggerated. He thoroughly enjoyed the smiles they brought to all who listened, and we can't forget his infamous joke telling that kept everyone on their toes and laughing.

Looking back, we remember a man with passion and desire to help others reach their full potential. Tom lived a vibrant life touching all who crossed his path, with a heart that always had room for more. He truly had a positive impact on everyone, leaving a heart print on all who knew him.

How does one honor and remember someone so special? Not only was he a man of honor who lived a life of integrity and gave fully of his heart- Tom was an amazing Dad, Husband, Grandpa, Teacher and Coach. It was obvious by the life he lived, the way he shared his heart, and that his faith in Christ shined through.

Tom left a legacy of love...He was our hero, and as with any hero, when asked he shared. He wanted everyone to know how blessed and thankful he was by his family, friends, co-workers, students and that he loved everyone very much.

Memorial Service will be held in Idaho Springs, CO later this summer.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Durango Herald on Jun. 28, 2022.

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Sharon K Roth

June 29, 2022

I'm so sad to hear of Tom's passing but I am sure he is with Nancy again. He was my Driver's Ed teacher in 1967 or 1968. We had such a good time. I next saw him in Pagosa Springs and enjoyed seeing him every few months at the dental office where I worked. We always had great conversations about the "good old days."

Doug Mason

June 28, 2022

Tom played an important role in my life. I will be forever fratefull. Thanks coach! God's speed.

Rose Bollig

June 28, 2022

I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I pray for peace and comfort to his family, especially to Tom and Cinda and Todd. May you find comfort, and May God Bless you in this difficult time of sorrow.

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