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Robert Rule Obituary

Robert Walter Rule, 68, the man who could lift, fix, or build anything, the man who was a rock for his family and friends, passed away peacefully surrounded by loved ones as a snow squall moved over his Bozeman, Montana, home the evening of February 9, 2024.

Born March 29, 1955, Bob was diagnosed with peritoneal carcinoma in the fall of 2022. He courageously fought the disease for 16 months, racking up power days on his Icon Pass at various ski areas, skiing locally at Bridger Bowl and Big Sky and exploring new and old mountain biking trails in Utah, Colorado, and Montana until late last year.

His passing has left a void in so many people's lives. We are sad about all the things he will miss out on with us moving forward, and we are sad about how much we will miss out on not having him around in person. He spearheaded many memorable adventures-from bike trips on the White Rim to ski trips on the Powder Highway.

Nobody liked to laugh and make others laugh more than Bob. He also liked to laugh at himself. Everyone who knows Bob has a Bob story. He was humble, he was witty, and he was generous.

He was a great friend, a best friend, to so many people in Durango, Colorado, where he resided from 1979-2014, and to his Bozeman tribe at Highline Partners where he was employed after moving to Montana. Friends describe him as a big kid with a huge heart in a man's body. Many consider him a big brother they never had.

Above all, Bob was an amazing husband, father, and brother.

Bob met his wife Carrie Springer, of Bozeman, in 2008. After a whirlwind winter romance, they married four months later, on the summer solstice at Bridger Bowl. Bob welcomed Carrie's daughter, Annika Odt, into his life and his home near the base of Purgatory Resort. He was a guiding, loving, and influential force in Annika's life for the past 16 years. Bob is the love of Carrie's life and her best friend.

Born and raised in San Diego, Bob excelled at sports, especially football. He was an all-star athlete in high school as a linebacker/center and at Madison High School in San Diego. After high school, Bob played for Mesa College in San Diego before transferring to the University of S.W. Louisiana where he played for the Ragin' Cajuns.

Bob was a builder by trade. He honed his skills as a young athlete pouring concrete and pounding posts for preseason training. After leaving college and an unsuccessful bid to play pro football, he started a successful construction company-Cal/Co Framing-that he ran for 30 years in Durango until relocating to Montana in 2014 where he was employed by Martel Construction and, most recently, Highline Partners.

Bob's love of the mountains and athleticism led to his greatest endeavor of all. His passion for skiing, snow science and route finding, combined with his entrepreneurial spirit and determination to ski powder, propelled him to start the San Juan Ski Company, Colorado's largest snowcat skiing operation. Founded in 1997, Bob was involved with all aspects of the operation since its inception, both on the skiing and operational side. He grew the company into a well-respected winter destination before selling the business in 2014.

Bob is survived by his wife, Carrie; stepdaughter, Annika; his brother, John Rule, of San Diego; and half-sister, Sandy Nava of Del Dios, California. He is preceded in death by his mother, Carol Jean Rule (Burr); father, Gilbert Raymond Rule; and stepdaughter, Arynn Abbott.

The family wants to thank Crosscut Mountain Sports Center for allowing e-bikes to travel on the

area's extensive mountain bike trails. As Bob's disease progressed, an e-bike allowed him to continue a sport he loved.

A celebration of Bob's life will be held this fall in Moab. Stay in touch for details....

Arrangements are in the care of Dokken-Nelson Funeral Service. Visit dokkennelson.com for Bob's memorial slideshow.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Durango Herald on Feb. 15, 2024.

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Ginger Stage

March 18, 2024

Carrie and Annika - I was heartbroken when I heard this. I know we all had lost contact since you moved, but the space in our hearts was still protected for all of you. Bob had such an incredible reputation - well deserved. Rob and I had always felt that Bob was a special gift from God, walking out of the woods when we were trying to decide whether or not the piece of property was buildable. He appeared (an answer to prayer) and assured us it was a great piece of property. The rest is history. We were honored to know him. My heart is with you both. Ginger Stage.

Sue Ehrhardt

March 13, 2024

It has been many years since I've seen Bob. I knew him when he lived in San Diego and also at times skiing in Durango. Bob was a wonderful guy with a kind and generous heart. His knock-out smile and teasing personality endeared him to me and to everyone. My family and I will miss him greatly.

Julie Angle

March 4, 2024

So sadden to hear of Bob's passing. Good times working with him for the cat skiing office and silly stories. A very gracious man.
Julie A.

Patti Fitzgerald

February 25, 2024

So saddened to hear this. Had the best times ever snowcat skiing with Bob and Carrie. RIP Bob.

Matt Beeman

February 25, 2024

Bob was a pleasure to work with. I drilled his personal well and many others for him in the Lake Purgatory area. He was a truly great craftsman and a joy to work with. My condolences to his family.

Bill Cherry

February 18, 2024

Know Bob from the softball days. What a great man and friend. I´ll never forget the great times spent with him. Rest in peace my friend.

Debie McCutcheon Schmitt

February 17, 2024

It was with a heavy heart that I read of Bob's passing.
I met Bob in the mid 1980s in Durango, CO after I went to work for
Red Barn Lumber. He quickly became one my favorite contractors to work with and we became friends. Our working relationship lasted for many years even as I moved around in different jobs at other lumber yards and building supply businesses.
I eventually moved from Durango and lost contact with Bob although I would always ask about him with mutual friends. I was extremely happy to hear that he fell in love, married and had moved to Montana.
I will always remember Bob's kindness, wit, quick smile and his humor. He touched the lives of everyone he met and that includes mine.
I send Blessings of Peace to his family and friends.

~ Debie McCutcheon Schmitt

Emily Gomez

February 17, 2024

We would like to express our sincere condolences to Bob's family. Bob would help anyone in need and was a friend to all. God Bless you and your family. Rest in peace. Pete and Emily Gomez

Kathy Romero (Jeff Shoemaker )

February 17, 2024

RIP My dear friend and favorite home run hitter. Say hi to Jeff

Robert & Karen Gomez

February 17, 2024

It has been years since we last saw Bob, for me all the way back to my days at A & L Coors. He did some work for us at our Durango home. We will always remember his great smile and infectious LAUGH. Our sincere condolences to his family.
Bob & Karen Gomez

SWB

February 16, 2024

Many of us younger tradies learned so much from Bob. He lives on in all of us that he taught and stands beside us with every new project. Thank you Bob, you will missed.

Chuck Pierce

February 16, 2024

So sorry to hear about Bob. He was a true definition of a man´s man he was a great guy in every way.

Gary Wilkinson

February 16, 2024

I am so sorry to hear about Bob´s passing. He was truly a larger than life guy. I will always remember his laugh and smile. I hope he is skiing some deep powder in heaven! God Bless his family and friends.

Davitt M. Armstrong

February 16, 2024

Wow. Being pole-axed by learning of Bob´s passing is like hearing that Engineer Mountain collapsed. Bob was that huge of a presence. Yeah, I´ve got stories, mostly success stories from having completed challenging projects together, often under less than ideal conditions. Bob´s strength and tenacity are legendary. Sometimes, when the grain is proud, it takes grit to smooth it down. Grit and endurance and unimaginable strength. Man, I learned a lot working with you, and I hope in some small way that was reciprocated. You always treated me as a friend and respected co-worker, even in your own inimitable fashion. A man-mountain indeed. A man-mountain. God, I am saddened!

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