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Patricia Basham Obituary

Patricia June Basham, better known as Meme, went home to be with our Lord, whom she loved with all her heart. Her unwavering faith and gentle spirit touched everyone she knew. She was preceded by Bennie, her husband of 65 years. Their legacy continues with their 3 daughters, Kathy (Mike) Janes, Susie (Tom) Ruybal, Shari (Mike) Abeyta, 7 grandchildren, 16 great grandchildren and 2 great great grandchildren. She will forever be remembered in the hearts of those she blessed.

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Published by The Durango Herald on Jun. 26, 2025.

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Debbie B Valencia

July 15, 2025

my sincere condolences to the family. very nice lady always smiling and saying hello. Rest in Peace and may God welcome you into paradise and send comfort to Susie, Tom, Paul, Teresa, Jen and all the family and friends that knew her. Amen

Mark Chapin

July 7, 2025

Patsy along with Bennie were so important in my growing up both at Purgatory and later as next door neighbors in the West Animas Valley. RIP.

Bobby and Sandy Hedges

June 30, 2025

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. We are thankful that Patsy and Bennie were part of our lives.

Betsy Lovelace

June 29, 2025

Patsy and Bennie were such huge influences on our lives as a young married couple so many years ago. Love you both with my whole heart!

Victor Schultheiss

June 29, 2025

Bennie and Patti were true Christ hearted believers in the Word of God and tremendous bible teachers as they lived their lives for the Lord. Patti you are now home reunited with your beloved Bennie. Thank you, both.

Teresa Gillian

June 29, 2025

I miss you, Meme. Your love and laugh will be remembered along with your poetic personality. I'm so glad the kids and I were able to see you one last time and play board games even if you couldn't see perfectly. I will hold you close always.
With Love,
Your oldest granddaughter.

Kathleen koziol

June 28, 2025

I loved patsy, a good person , very beautiful soul, so sorry ,

Shannon Mackey

June 27, 2025

Heaven gained a beautiful soul, and she and Bennie are together again. I have so many memories of them from them starting the original Cowboy Church in Durango, Easter Sunrise services at the house up the Valley, to stopping by the Bolt Ben to say Hi, to Bennie, marrying me. Wonderful people.

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