David Ruby Obituary

Dave would be there. He listened to me when I had something to share. He would be thoughtful and genuine in his responses for me, no matter the subject matter, personal problem or outrageous idea. He was there.
He still is ...

I have a family in the heavens clearing a path for me someday.
Love ya Dave. Give Dad and Mom a hug for me

Happy Birthday David.

This is a special year. September will be your LHS and Oak Grove School 50th reunion. I know how much you were looking forward to that. I even had a surprise Oak Grove t shirt made up for you (3 years ago) based on our conversations about where we grew up. It was to be your birthday gift. I wear it on your birthdays now

David- I heard this song. Why write my words when the lyrics say what my heart feels and wonders. I saw all three of you, sitting and laughing at our kitchen table...which got me to pull out our last family photo at Mom's 80th. Damn (-=

Here are some of the song lyrics that clearly shared the three of you. Thank you for bringing this song to me brother:

"Is there a bar up there where you've got a favorite chair? Where you sit with friends and talk about the weather?

"Is there a place you go to watch the sunset and is there a song you just can't wait to share? Yeah, I know you will tell me when I get there."

"Do you three think of me?...I know you are".

"Will you save me a place?"...

"Til I'm with you"

David three years and I ... you know.

I have a family in the heavens clearing a path for me someday. Love ya Dave - Give Dad and Mom a hug for me.

I just learned today that you are no longer with us. Your smile and humor, and love of those around you is truly missed. I'll always remember the trip to Arkansas to see Uncle Boots & Aunt Joan, your help on renovating my house in Libertyville, and the times we gathered with Rookie & Kate. Forever in our hearts!

Second year David. For some foolish reason I believed it would get easier and every year it´s just as hard ( if not harder). Damn Dave learning to live without you is hard. When I am able to give to others freely, graciously, quietly and unconditionally you, Mom and Dad are ALWAYS in my heart. It is the best part of my day- doing something for others. I feel the presence of family in my heart, it carries me through.

You always seem to know when to reach down and give me an "ear flick". 
I know you are all watching over me but not having any immediate family here is hard and well ...it sucks! I'll end each remembrance with ... I have a family in the heavens clearing a path for me someday. Love ya Dave Give Dad and Mom a hug for me

Hard to believe it has been one year already David. Some of your friends have checked in on me throughout this past year- I know you would be thankful to them- I am
I will admit this year has not been an easy one but I know I have a family in the heavens clearing a path for me someday
Love ya Dave❣ Give Dad and Mom a hug for me❣❣

My memory of Dave goes back to his high school years when he was a basketball "star" at Libertyville High School. He would always grab a few of his buddies and scrimmage his younger sister's basketball team on Saturday mornings. It made the girls' team tough. Imagine a big brother giving up Saturday mornings to benefit a bunch of girls. That was Dave! The world lost a free spirit who was generous with his time and talent. Be free.

March 23,2020
Celebration of Life is postponed until further notice

Stay home when you can, stay safe and check in on your neighbors.

Diane Ruby
Daves " little sister"

Celebration of Life will be Saturday May 2, 2020 at Durango Elks Lodge #507

Ahhhh, Rubes ....
We'll forever miss the artistry of your heart and of your hands. Riviera Paradise is playing, and I know that now you're wandering that beautiful shore. You good, good man.

Dav and Susan