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Brenda Aguilar Obituary

Brenda Ellamae Aguilar, a life-long Durango, Colorado resident, passed away unexpectedly on April 17th, 2020 at the age of 54.

Brenda is survived by her son Kiegen Aguilar and his girlfriend Jaten Gomez; her mother Delphia Aguilar; sisters Cindy Aguilar, Yolonda Aguilar, Loretta Mayer and Roberta Pardo; her brothers Bernie Aguilar and Louis Aguilar; her nephew Julian Aguilar and his wife Blossom Aguilar; and many other family members. She is preceded in death by her father Lloyd Aguilar and brothers Bardo Aguilar, Angelo Aguilar and Jerry Ulibarri.

Brenda was born on June 6th, 1965 in Durango, Colorado at Mercy. She worked at Wal Mart for 22 years. She was a loving and dedicated mother, and a beloved sister, daughter and aunt. She was always there for her family and spoiled her nieces and nephews like they were her own. She will be deeply missed.

Funeral services will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers and donations please send prayers to the family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Durango Herald on Apr. 21, 2020.

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Cheryl Cyphers

April 24, 2020

I worked with Brenda at Walmart she was a great lady and great friend she will be missed I am sending prayers to her family R.I.P Brenda

Beauty was her.

Darlene Hiemer

April 23, 2020

My prayers are going up to Jesus right now for comfort and healing for your loss of this beautiful woman. I met sweet Brenda when I was a CSM at Wal Mart 22 years ago, in fact I interviewed her for hire I liked her from the moment I met her. She is and was a beautiful lady and person, I will miss seeing her.

Miracle

April 22, 2020

She was always nice and a pleasure to be around.

Theresa Kirk

April 22, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May God keep you and comfort all of you during your time of grief and always. And if I understand the article, Delphia is her mother and with us......can I ask that someone please hold her tight and tell her that it's from my mom Alice. I know my mom would be right there by her side. Please give her my love.

Laura Schamp

April 21, 2020

Brenda was a beautiful person. I also worked with at Wal-Mart She was loving and dedicated to anyone who crossed paths with her. Prayers and positive thoughts go out to family and co-workers . Brenda will be deeply missed. Rest in peace. From, Laura Willden Schamp

Stacy Alagdon

April 21, 2020

My beautiful Aunt❤ I love you and miss you dearly.

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