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Barbara Cornelius Obituary

Barbara G. Cornelius, age 96, passed away peacefully on March 2, 2019, at Hansen Cottage (St. John's Lutheran Ministries) in Billings, surrounded by her family and caregivers. Barbara was born on June 28, 1922, in Durango, Colorado, to Ray and Edna Goodman. She was the youngest of three children. She graduated from high school in Durango, and attended college in Pueblo, Colorado.

Barbara married her high school sweetheart and love of her life, Myrle Cornelius, on April 21, 1944. After World War II, they made their home in Durango and had one son, Doug.

Barbara was first and foremost a devoted wife and mother. For many years, she taught dance and is fondly remembered by scores of her former dance students. In addition, she owned a children's clothing store in the 1950's for 1-2 years and was a co-owner of a fabric store in the 1980's for four years.

Barbara and Myrle had many friends, and she loved to cook, entertain and host wonderful parties. They loved golf, visiting nearby casinos to play slot machines at least once a month, and watching the Denver Broncos. She was meticulous in her appearance and loved having nice clothes and jewelry. She and Myrle routinely had popcorn and champagne for brunch on Sundays. She was a longtime member of PEO and St. Mark's Episcopal Church in Durango, both of which were very important to her.

Generous and welcoming, Barb always made the time to listen to others and to render sage advice. She was kind, gentle and independent.

She was preceded in death by her parents; her brother, Bill; and her sister, Marian. After Myrle's death in 2010, Barb continued to live in her home in Durango for several years. When she was no longer able to live on her own, she moved to Billings and lived in assisted living at The Vista for two years. When she required more care, she moved to Hansen Cottage three years ago, which was her home until her passing.

She was loved by staff and fellow residents. She took care of those around her, and she always knew the names of her caretakers and their children. She always kept M&M's and Starbursts as treats for her visitors.

Most of all, Barbara loved her family and they loved her. She is survived by her son, Doug (Susan) of Billings; her grandchildren Ryan (Annie) and their three children, Ella, Olivia, and Miles of Denver; Shannon (Patrick) Crowley and their son James of Wake Forest, North Carolina; Erin (Eliott Harmon) of San Francisco; Andrew, of Anchorage; and Frances of Billings; Casey Redmon of Washington, D.C., and Mary (Eric) Emmett of Billings. She is also survived by Fran Cornelius of Charleston, South Carolina.

A memorial service will be at 1:30 p.m. Thursday, March 7, at Hansen Cottage, 3940 Rimrock Road. A second memorial service and inurnment will be held in Durango, Colorado at a later date.

Special thanks to the staff at The Vista and Hansen Cottage, for the wonderful care and love given to Barbara and to Jerry Loudenburg and other friends who looked after her while she lived in Durango.

Barbara made a tremendous impact on many people's lives and will be missed immensely. She will be especially missed by her family, who can be comforted in the knowledge that she was a woman of faith and is in Heaven with Myrle and looking forward to seeing us again.

Condolences may be made at www.michelottisawyers.com.

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Published by The Durango Herald on Mar. 4, 2019.

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Emily Kroeger Ter Maat

March 12, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your sweet mom is in my thoughts every time I drive down Third Avenue and see your family home.

My condolences to your family.

March 7, 2019

Doug -
It's been too many years since I took dance from your mom but I do remember her (& her teaching partner) as a great teacher and very sweet lady. It couldn't have been easy wrangling all those kids for the recitals. I also remember your piano prowess -- much better than mine. I send my sincerest condolences to you and your family. Keep the good memories.
Love,
Paula (Sartoris) Whitehorn
Canon City, Colorado

Mary Dunbar

March 6, 2019

DearDoug and Family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your mothers passing. She and your Dad were wonderful people, and will live one the hearts and memories of so many.
Please know my thoughts, prayers and sincere sympathy are with you.
With love,
Mary and Chris Dunbar
Or as you know me----"Mary Margaret Mason"

Jennifer Alley

March 6, 2019

The world has lost an amazing, beautiful and loving soul. My heart aches for you and your family. Barbara was not only my mother's best and closet friend, she was also a loving friend and mentor to me. I have such fond memories of her, from the time I started dance at five years old, until later, as a teenager, when I was her dance assistant. I have so many wonderful memories of her and her loving husband, Merle, and I cherish all of them.
Barbara touched so many people, from her dance students to her dearest friends in her Tuesday Lit Club. She was truly a shining light.

March 5, 2019

My sincere condolences to the family and friends of Ms. Cornelius. May cherished memories, heartfelt prayers, and the loving provision from the God of all comfort bring you hope and solace. (John 3:16)

March 5, 2019

Barbara and my grandmother taught dance together in Durango. I have many fond memories of her and Myrle. Tricia Schlageter

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